Pres. Obama sent such a polite note to Sandy Tsao, a military officer who told her superiors that she is gay:

Obama note

He is, of course, lying.  On the occasion of The One’s dismissal of his first gay Arabic linguist, the folks over at HuffPo note that he has two options. First, he could exercise his authority to order the military not to investigate any serviceman’s sexuality.  Or,

A new study, about to be published by a group of experts in military law, shows that President Obama does, in fact, have statutory, stroke-of-the-pen authority to suspend gay discharges. Obama could simply invoke his authority under federal law (10 U.S.C. §12305) to retain any member of the military he believes is essential to national security.

Pres. Obama should announce that he is taking one of these steps in order to institute a one year moratorium on removing gays from the military.  During that time, his administration should work on obtaining congressional approval for formal repeal of Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell.

He won’t.  It’s better to write pretty notes and pretend you care.  For most gays that’ll be enough.  They’d rather go back to hating on Miss California anyway.