Recently, I was reading an article on people who makes list of things they want to accomplish before they die. My first inclination was to join them in making such a list, something I’ll start shortly. But before I do that, I want to take time to appreciate some great experiences I’ve already had in life. That’s this list. Over time, I hope this list grows, at least in part by items migrating from the other list.

  1. going pheasant hunting in Nebraska with my father on a brisk fall morning
  2. killing my first deer on a hunting trip with my best friend
  3. graduating from Vanderbilt Law School
  4. being chair or co-chair for the Nashville Pride festival for three years running while seeing attendance grow and taking the organization from $3000 in the red to $12,000 in the black when I left
  5. riding in a hot air balloon in New Mexico, getting lost from the chase truck, crashing through the trees and having to hike through the desert to find a phone
  6. riding in a helicopter over the big island in Hawaii
  7. riding in an open cockpit biplane
  8. talking to someone and seeing them decide to accept Jesus Christ as their savior
  9. skydiving, which was paid for as a birthday gift by my brother when I was in college
  10. traveling to Europe and the Soviet Union following college graduation
  11. spending Christmas 2006 in Paris with close friends and staying in a hotel within sight of the Eiffel Tower
  12. going on two all gay cruises in the Caribbean
  13. deleted – a bit TMI
  14. buying my first home
  15. being a foster parent for 5 years
  16. cruising Prince William Sound in Alaska and seeing vast glaciers and bald eagles flying free in the wild
  17. sailing Sandusky Bay on a sailing boat with a good friend and college roommate with the added bonus that Christopher Cross’s “Sailing” came on the radio while we were slicing through the water beneath the wind pushed canvases
  18. coming out to myself, my friends and my family

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