Chris Sanders of TEP alerts us to the re-opening of a front in the culture war. Sen. Stanley (R – Memphis) has reintroduced his bill outlawing adoption by cohabitating couples living outside of marriage. Clearly, this is an anti-gay measure he’s trying to dress up in pro-family clothes – that don’t fit.
He starts his bill with the following declaration:
The public policy of this state is to favor marriage, as defined by the constitution and laws of this state, over unmarried sexual cohabitation. It is also the public policy of this state to place children into adoptive families that provide the most stable familial relationships for that child and will foster an appreciation for the policies of this state that favor marriage over unmarried cohabitation. The general assembly specifically finds that it is not in a child’s best interest to be adopted by a person who is cohabitating in a sexual relationship that is not a legally valid and binding marriage under the constitution and laws of this state.
So, let’s review. The State wants children to be adopted into stable families. Here are some possible arrangements:
- straight, married couple
- straight, unmarried couple
- straight, unmarried single person
- gay, unmarried couple
- gay, unmarried single person
Under Sen. Stanley’s bill, 1, 3 and 5 could still adopt. I’m not sure if he has noticed, but 3 and 5 aren’t families that involve married couples. Apparently, Sen. Stanley believes it is better to be adopted by someone who is single than someone who is in a relationship. And, it’s better for a child to be left in indefinite foster care, often punctuated by frequent moves, than to be placed in a home without a marriage license.
Also, as Aunt B ably points out, this sentence is more than a little creepy:
It is also the public policy of this state to place children into adoptive families that . . . will foster an appreciation for the policies of this state . . ..
Sen. Stanley wants families that are goverrnment approved and families that approve of government.
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